For me, as much as some people view interacting through the online medium is important especially in this isolated life we are all living in but...
I don't see the excitement or life in it.
Sure, it helps you communicate with people far away and fix those broken bond and give some sort warmth in your gloomy isolated life after chatting for a bit with some people online but.....
in the end, it will never be the same.
You can chat a LOT with someone online but only speak little to nothing words with that person in real life in fact you might even never talk.
Only in real life, you'll truly know who you truly enjoy talking to or close to and who truly care about you. NOT through online mediums. A random stranger can easily weave some beautifully strung words that enchants your whole life and make you feel like a fairy or fluffy bunny but....does that stranger even truly truly care or meant it? Was the words written came from the stranger's sincere heart or simply because the stranger felt like it.
Excuse me, all this emojis like smiley face :D can be typed without any happy emotions.
Plus, having too much social mediums can be a burden, for me at least. Thus is why I shut down most of my old social website accounts, A lot of people, including me sometimes expects just because I send something to her or him or whatever, that person has to reply asap and if you don't, well that hurts. As if, that another person does not have any real life activities going on and that person's life is completely dedicated to respond to your online hellos. Please.
anddd, everyone has their own mood swings. Sometimes we're in a decent mood and are online thus type type send but at other times we can be in a hurricane mood and thus the lack of energy to respond to any no emotion online hellos. It all goes back to whether you are a human living in this real harsh world or a robot living in that lovely virtual world of yours.
Conclusion is, communicating online can be fun to some extend but that's it. It does not indicate who truly cares about you or who you are close to or whatever.
plus people like me, find online conversations tiring at times cause idk what the other person expressions or feelings is at that time so there.
There's no need to be hurt or sad because someone ignore you or say something mean about you online because truth is, everyone once online creates their own facade and personas. Some have even more that one. Creepy.
hmkdahtheend
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